THE ELEPHANT
IN THE SACRISTY: THE SACRED SILENCE
AROUND CELIBACY
by Ted Schmidt
Part I
The forms of the apostolate should be properly adapted to
current needs…Religious and social surveys made through offices of pastoral
sociology, contribute greatly to the effective and fruitful attainment of the
goal, and they are cordially recommended.
Decree on the Bishops' Pastoral Office in the Church, #17, Vatican ll
Si non caste, tamen caute
If not chastely, then carefully
Albert, Archbishop of
Beginning in the mid-1980s Catholics were again and again
scandalized by the growing phenomenon of priest pedophilia. This tsunami of abuse reached epic proportions in the
first years of the new millennium. Much of the revelations crystallized in the
Similarly and in like manner,
the
As this catastrophe was
unfolding, probably the worst ecclesial disaster since the Reformation, the
faithful were jolted wide awake as well by the phenomenal abrogation of duty by
a new breed of bishop whose primary loyalty was seen to be the protection of
the institution, rather than the well being of the defenseless children and the
heartbreak of families. Priest Donald Cozzens in his
book Sacred Silence reckons that the scandal has directly touched one
hundred thousand victims and with family factored in --about one million
people. Add to this, the disgust and dismay of parishioners and you have a
full-blown crisis. The fiscal implications while pale in comparison to the
pastoral, nevertheless, are considerable. In the
The somnolent laity, too long
codependent and enablers of patriarchal and clerical control of the people of
God, quickly organized themselves in the
It seems the bishops were
terrified of even addressing the issue as it would look like disloyalty to the
pope, and it would call into question the fact that 80 percent of those who
were abused were male adolescents. This admission would highlight the fact that
large numbers of Catholic clergy are homosexual. Though gays are no more
predisposed to molest than straights and homosexuality is not the cause of the
abuse, there are simply a very high number of gays in the priesthood. While one
should not prescind from this that homosexuality is
the cause of pedophilia (the abuse of young male adolescents), to even question
the cornerstone of Church organization would lead God knows where. Possibly a
change in the celibacy requirements for priesthood? Possibly a recognition that
the Holy Spirit of God might be signaling (gasp) that it is time for the
radical equality of leadership roles at every level of the Church. Might this
not be the inclusion which the Gospel demands today?
Raising this thorny issue
despite its obvious cogency would be an Episcopal career ender. Only the secure
bishops had done so in the past. In 1985 the great cardinal of
The attempts of so many
committed Church people to drag the Church into the 21st Century and as the
opening quote suggested, "adapt the church to its current needs"
should be contrasted with the irrational and cruel harshness of the Episcopal
class to dissent or even suggestions that celibacy, ministry, and sexual ethics
needs to be dramatically rethought. Witness the recent Episcopal pillorying of
priest Ed Cachia of the Peterborough Diocese in
The fear of Paul Vl
The modern day aversion to raising the issue can be traced
to Pope Paul Vl's intervention in the midst, not only
of the Second Vatican Council, but also at the height of the 1960s --that
decade of sexual liberation. On June 12, 1965 the French paper Le Monde
published a leaked draft of a speech by a Brazilian bishop by the name of Koop.
Desperately short of clergy the good bishop asked the council to permit married
priests to augment the diminishing number in his diocese. Koop's heartfelt plea
would be later repeated by dozens of realistic bishops around the Catholic
world.
Paul Vl,
aware that the request by Koop was about to hit the conciliar
floor, pre-empted the world's bishops by refusing to allow even a discussion of
the issue. Gary Wills in his book Structures of Deceit: Papal Sin quotes
the
This papal letter makes for
tortuous reading. Much of Paul's reasoning hinges on the Matthean
line (19:12) about "eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven." Many scholars
find this line problematic as a saying of Jesus (it is only found in Matthew).
Taken in context the passage emphasizes the values of marriage and children.
Although it is impossible to flesh this out here, we can safely say that the
eunuch metaphor has nothing to do with lifelong celibacy and probably nothing
to do with celibacy itself. There simply is no interest in the Gospels about celibacy.
As well as several scholars have pointed out, the concept of voluntary
renunciation of marriage is virtually unheard of in Judaism. While Pope Paul, a
deeply sensitive churchman certainly believed that celibacy was a
"jewel," his use of the New Testament to prove his point seems less
than forthright.
Only three places refer to
celibacy in the New Testament. Paul cites but does not quote two of them. In
1:Timothy it states, "a bishop must be irreproachable, the husband of only
one wife" and virtually the same in Titus. What is shocking is the
evangelist Paul's remark, "Do we not have the right to take a Christian
wife like the rest of the apostles?" (1 Cor. 9:
5). Though Paul says he has not made use of this right (v.15), the truth is the
disciples and apostles were not celibate (eunuchs for the reign), nor in fact
were priests for eleven hundred years.
The proclamation of the
Gospel and true discipleship has nothing to do with celibacy and the
embarrassing lengths the Church has gone to in insisting on this mandatory
discipline has done little for the people of God. In the end it has starved the
people of Eucharist, increased the exodus of heterosexual priests who left to
marry, left behind a predominantly gay priesthood many of whom serve the Church
with zeal and dignity. Yet now it appears they too are becoming the scapegoat
for the pedophilia crisis. In my next two articles I will trace the history of
celibacy in the Church, a discipline which according to expert Richard Sipe less than 10 percent of priests have successfully
negotiated.
Part II
Ecclesiastical celibacy is not a dogma. The scriptures do
not impose it. It is even easy to effect the change. I take up a pen, I sign a decree,
and the next day, priests who wish to may get married.
John XXlll
The Church as Institution . . . cannot bring healing to
others until it first heals its broken notion of the human person. Nor can it
be holy, or even recognize and affirm what is holy in the world, until it
purges itself of unhealthy ideas about men and women and supplants these ideas
with healthy ones instead.
Eugene Kennedy
At the recent synod on the Eucharist in
Nobody questions that
effective ministry need be coupled with celibacy. Our Orthodox and Uniate relatives as well as our Protestant and Jewish
cousins seem to get along quite well without it. Granted marriage by itself
does not confer effective leadership on a community either, but why this
adamantine refusal to countenance a relaxation of a medieval demand? One reason
of course was the ferocious personal commitment to the discipline by the late
Pope John Paul ll. There can be no doubt that Karol Woytyla
lived his celibacy in an heroic manner, yet the personal predilection and iron
discipline of a pope should never override the wisdom and wishes and
demonstrable needs of the whole Church. The simple fact is the insistence on
celibacy has had grave consequences for the credibility of the Church.
Quite simply celibacy does
not work, has not worked and the pretence that all is well is badly damaging
the credibility of the Roman Church. The explosive sex abuse scandal has once
again focused people's attention on this "precious jewel," as Paul Vl termed it. And while celibacy cannot be deemed the
reason for such widespread sex abuse, there can be no doubt the unresolved and
unsuccessful integration of sexuality is a major cause.
In the past (from 1139 CE
onward), celibacy simply was the price that many paid for priesthood. For many
it was a necessary burden which came with the territory. Many seemingly
succeeded largely because of the extraordinary seamlessness of the Catholic
culture --the great respect with which priests were held, their status
unquestioned in the community along with the many unearned perks they received
as "men of the cloth." The iron discipline and hierarchical nature of
the Church was a given, as was the overall culture conservatism of repressed
sexuality. This legalist authoritarianism structure was tacitly accepted by
Catholics who found themselves in a largely Protestant culture. All this
changed with the 1960s. The Second Vatican Council, described by English
historian Eamon Duffy as "the most revolutionary
Christian event since the Reformation," proclaimed that holiness was
endemic to every state in life. Celibates had no great claim to virtue or
holiness. Marriage now was championed as much for its mutuality as its procreational function. Celibates began to feel alone and
unsure of themselves. The mass exodus of priests began,
the overwhelming percentage to marry.
Celibacy always (as we will
see) had been a burden, but had been propped up by the Catholic culture. It is
commonly accepted that the most talented men left the priesthood, leaving many
of the remnant angry, confused, and bitter. They had to work along with the
genuinely fine priests who had made their peace with the hard discipline. With
the cultural props disappearing, and with a more holistic view of sexuality
appearing, celibacy's casualties became more obvious. The higher rate of
alcoholism in the priesthood was revealed. One did not have to be Freud to
observe the deleterious effects of celibacy --the "dried prunes" of
crotchety pastors, their often-stunted emotional lives along with their loss of
affectivity and capacity for laughter. Too many were obviously suffering a
low-level depression. Michael Crosby quotes fellow Capuchin Martin Pables reference to "low level hostility" among
some clergy. "They are not angry people; they are quietly and passively
resentful. They resent the burdens of celibacy, the ineptness of religious
leadership, the confusion of theology and the ingratitude of the
faithful."
Why celibacy in the first place?
As we know the Church came out of Judaism as a reform
movement led by Jesus, a liberal Pharisee. The first thing to say here in the
Jewish world, celibacy, the voluntary renunciation of marriage is an utterly
foreign concept. This is so obvious that we need not discuss it. "Be
fruitful and multiply" was a duty particularly in a world where longevity
was not known.
Judaism, however, like many
movements of antiquity was radically affected by the dualism of Greek culture.
From Pythagoras (6th c. BCE) to Plato (d. 347 BCE), the body is suspect while
the soul is elevated and noble. We know Plato had a huge influence on
Christianity with its distrust of matter and the body. We shall see this in the
writings of the Church fathers later.
Historian Joseph Swain tells
us that, "a wave of asceticism swept over the whole Greek world in the
first century BCE." Philosophical schools like the Epicureans and Stoics
promulgated celibacy. Stoicism, the greatest school of ancient philosophy, had
its most profound impact from 300 BCE to 250 CE. Stoicism naturally lauded
celibacy over marriage. A true Stoic like Seneca (d. 65 CE) could write that
one "resists the assault of passions and does not allow himself to be
swept into the marital act." Pliny the Elder (d. 79 CE) praised the
elephant for mating only every two years! All over the
Uta
Ranke-Heinemann writes that "the negative
assessment of sexual pleasure in the two centuries after Christ was further
strengthened by the invasion of pessimism...which came out of the east...and
would prove to be the most dangerous competition for Christianity. This we know
as gnosticism." The latter movement greatly
exacerbated the distrust of the senses and the hatred of the body which so
infected the new religion. The only worthy part of the human is the spark of
light from another world, the soul. The body was "the grave you carry
around with you." A further departure from God's good creation you could
not find --and Gnosticism's denigration of corporality had a deadly effect. Marcion, a Christian gnostic
leader (c. 140 CE) identified sex with evil matter. For Marcion,
Jesus could not have been born through the sex act and probably floated down
from heaven. He himself was celibate and demanded the same of his followers.
Though he had a large impact on the early Church, Marcion's
extreme sexual asceticism got him bounced from the Church of Rome in 144 CE. In
the desert area of
Although the Church rejected
the most extreme of these teachings, there is no doubt that she was radically
influenced by them. The year 150 CE is chosen by historian Peter Brown as a
Rubicon in this area. By then the powerful life-affirming and positive
influence of Judaism had begun to wane, and the dualism and pessimism of the
Hellenic world became dominant within Christianity especially in the areas of
marriage and sexuality.
Looking back we see nothing
in the apostolic community, which wedded celibacy to the essentials of
Christianity. The earliest witness Paul, says he received nothing from the Lord
on this matter. The canonical Gospels do not raise the issue. The first
apostles and leaders were all married. We know nothing of Jesus marital state
and the fact that nothing is said in the gospels about his traditional single
state probably indicates that he more than likely was married. The writers
assuredly would have commented on an itinerant Jewish rabbi who was unmarried.
The Gospels are simply disinterested in biography. Other than the fact that we
know Jesus had brothers (Mk.6: 3) we know little of his biographical details.
The Gospels are simply not that type of literature. They are proclamations,
sermon fragments, testimonies of his lordship. There is so little material
about his life that we simply cannot know. What we have in traditional
spiritual writing is well recognized today as sentimental conjecture with no
historical basis. The eminent Notre Dame theologian Richard McBrien
phrases it well: "Is it possible he was married? Yes…and without any
compromise of the church's historic faith in him as truly God and truly, truly
human." That the Church had a vested interest in proclaiming his single
celibate status is beyond question. Infected by the Gnostic pessimism described
above and the denigration of the body, the early Church fathers (and most
especially the giant Augustine) elevated celibacy over the married state.
Virgin birth
As Christianity moved into the Hellenic world hobbled by
the pagan asceticism above, and as the Hebraic unity of flesh and spirit was
broken apart by this new anti-body sentiment, sexual abstinence was elevated to
new heights. Nowhere is this seen as in the use of the virgin birth story as a
buttress to the celibate state as superior and ultimately to be linked with
priesthood.
As early as 310 CE, the
Council of Elvira (
Here we see something which
should not shock us. Aquinas, the greatest doctor of the Church, breathed in
quite naturally the noxious fumes of the Church's anti-body history. Today this
need not trouble us. But to insist on celibacy and an all male celibate
priesthood is to ignore the persistent promptings of the Holy Spirit.
Part III
If anyone says the married state is
to be placed above the state of virginity or of celibacy and that it is not
better and more blessed to remain in virginity and celibacy than to be united
in matrimony, let him be anathema.
The Council of
The devil never harmed the church
as much as when the church herself adopted the vow of celibacy.
Peter Comestor
I believe that mandatory celibacy
may have done as much or more evil than any other church policy when one
considers all its consequences in terms of the exclusion of women and the
negative reading it gives the laity on sexuality.
Anthony Padovano
Celibacy as a church
discipline has been getting a hard time lately. In these past two articles
I have looked at its early history, how it came into the Church when a huge
wave of asceticism moved through the West in the first century before Jesus,
and how the prevailing Stoic philosophy carried these anti-body ideas through
the Greco-Roman world for the first few centuries of the common era, how the
extreme sexual asceticism, basically unknown in Judaism, became dominant in
Christianity. Augustine, the towering Church father of the fourth century
seemed consumed by his supposed sexual depravity (though not his abandoning of
his concubine) and handed on to posterity his sexual pessimism, his linking of
sin and sex. It was Augustine who gave the name pudenda to our genitals.
The Latin translation means, "to be ashamed."
For
Augustine, the Virgin Birth myth proved to be a perfect canister to safeguard
Jesus' absolutely pure birth. No human contact. No sexual arousal as Jesus was
conceived. Behold the only human not to pass on "the original sin" of
Adam. It is impossible to estimate the staggering effect this negative teaching
has had on generations of Christians. Lost to history are the writings of
Augustine's antagonist Julian, the son of a bishop and married to a bishop's
daughter. Julian rejected Augustine's negative view of sexual desire and
original sin. For him, sexual desire within marriage furthered the divine plan
and was only abused in extramarital affairs. Sadly, Augustine's defective
thinking won the day and as Richard Sipe has written,
"Sexual pleasure=women=evil." The championing of celibacy can be
traced in large part to Augustine. The unbalanced ecclesiastical thinking, this
preoccupation with sex throughout the centuries is a negative gift from the man
from Hippo,
Augustine's contemporary,
Pope
Innocent I (401-17), the pontiff of both Augustine and Jerome, had a novel idea
which fimplemented, would have allowed the Church to
come to grips with celibacy. One lapse of chastity and out of the priesthood.
Simple as that. Celibacy equals chastity. Instead this was never enforced and
never became law, for the simple reason that the long experience of the Church
has shown how absolutely unworkable celibacy is. As the recent sex scandals
have proven, the hierarchical leaders have tolerated every lapse, no matter how
grave, for the simple reason that the Church could not function otherwise.
This is
not new. It has been the consistent experience at every level of priesthood
--from the papacy to the curia to the parish. There have been massive cover-ups
everywhere as the latest scandals in
Many popes
were sons of priests and bishops. For example: Boniface (418-22), Gelasius (492-496), Agapitus
(535-536), Silverius (536-7), Theodore (642-649) and
we have yet to get to that epoch of dissolution, the Renaissance. Historians
estimate the number of married popes at around 40 and four have been canonized
as saints. "No historian," Hans Kung writes in The Catholic
Church: A Short History, "will ever discover how many children these
holy fathers fathered, living in monstrous luxury, unbridled sensuality, and
uninhibited vice." The notorious Franciscan Sixtus
IV (1471) sired several sons and made his corrupt nephew Pietro
Riario a cardinal. Sixtus
licensed the brothels of
But we
are slightly ahead of ourselves. As the
Things
never changed for the better. Ecclesial giants like St. Boniface (726 CE)
seemed powerless to enforce the codes of celibacy and mitigate the promiscuity
in the abbeys. "The clergy were still stubborn...some defended themselves
as being legitimately entitled to have a concubine." Boniface, the right
hand of Pope Zachary, feared for his life as he attempted to discipline his
unruly clergy. By the time of Charlemagne (800), "unchastity
remained a corroding ulcer," according to Lea. The failure was never
ending. Edicts prohibiting cohabitation of women and clergy were constant and
absolutely ineffectual. Convents, as the Council of Aix-la-Chapelle (836 CE)
states "were rather brothels than houses of God." Infanticide of
unwanted children became common. Part of the monastic discipline was the
letting of blood in the hope of alleviating the effects of prolonged
continence. And Sigmund Freud was still one thousand years away on a distant
horizon.
The
eleventh and twelfth centuries were the absolute zenith of papal power. At the
Second Lateran council of 1139 all priestly marriages were declared invalid and
priests' wives and children became the Church's property. Mass protests erupted
to no avail. This was a massive change not understood by most people who think
that clerical celibacy dates from the twelfth century. As we see from above,
celibacy and priesthood co-existed from the fourth century on. No more. A
priest was so set apart from lay people that marriage was inconceivable.
Gregory the Great in 602 declared that a priest's marriage was valid, but he
now had to choose. Ordination simply invalidated marriage. Things only got
worse and without the discipline of marriage, concubinage
and promiscuity became rampant. Hear the frustration in the voice of one of the
church's great saints, Bernard of Clairvaux (1135):
"Take from the church an honourable marriage and
an immaculate marriage bed, and do you not fill it with concubinage,
incest, homosexuality and every kind of uncleanness?" From Norman times
(eleventh century) at least until the sixteenth century the cullagium,
a sex tax was collected, if one wished to keep his concubine.
Hans
Kung writes, "A church of celibate men established the prohibition of
marriage. In the Eastern churches the clergy other than bishops remained
married and were therefore more integrated into the structure of society. By
contrast, the celibate clergy of the West were totally set apart from the
Christian people above all by their unmarried state."
St. Ulric (d.1093 CE) a Cluniac monk
whose feast day is July 14 spoke common sense to the issue. He simply argued for
married priests on scriptural grounds and his witty comment survives to this
day: "Some prelates are pressing the breasts of Scripture to make them
yield blood not milk."
It has often been said about the
Council of Trent that it unnecessarily highlighted everything that the
Reformers rejected --and so when it was convened that which in a large part
provoked the Reformation, namely celibacy, became the rigorous standard of the
Catholic renewal. In classical arrogance which yielded not one whit to these
upstart heretics,
The
corrupt papacy, saved once by the return to poverty movement of Francis and his
passion for the Jesus of the stable, once again accentuated not the evangelical
values of the reign of God, but the massive apparatus of a powerful system. The
local clergy who had so shamelessly abused their status as mediators of grace
in the confessional and at the altar, once again were set above the laity,
bathed as they were in an aura of sanctity.
Celibacy
is about control and property. At a basic level a single man without a family
and a partner is easier to control. The growing power of the bishops with
families caused huge problems as valuable property, huge landed estates was
handed down to family and other relatives. Boniface VIII (d 1303) is said to
have given away one quarter of Church revenues to his family! A married
priesthood simply had divided loyalties.
Unencumbered
and isolated he became a pawn in an ecclesiastical game, a loyal soldier in a
clerical institution, expected to give absolute obedience to his Episcopal
overseer. Celibacy assured this loyalty --no more families to support, no more
property to hand on. What
As we
have noticed in the recent sex scandals pathetic men used the power and
prestige of the priesthood to destroy young lives. They gave up marriage but
not chastity. A recent new book, The Bingo Report has linked sexual
abuse to mandatory celibacy and researcher Dean R. Hoge
makes the point that "the celibacy requirement is the single most
important deterrent to new vocations to the priesthood." The powerful
spirit force of
Church leadership would have us believe
that celibacy has a long and noble tradition within the Church. It doesn't. In
these few articles, I have merely scratched the surface of the terrible price
we have paid for the imposition. In no way should this be seen as an attack on
the marvelous ascetical discipline which few have mastered and most non
voluntarily. Today, 40 years after Vatican II, living as we do in a world which
accepts women as equals, in a church which affirms the gifts of the baptized
but which still discriminates on the basis of gender, at a time when after the
greatest scandal since the Reformation has humiliated the Church, a scandal
which clearly points to the unsuccessful integration of sexuality, we still
adamantly refuse to revisit this discipline. That we do not have a priest for
every second parish in the Catholic world appears not to bother some hierarchs.
That the Roman Catholic Church appears willing to give up the laity's right to
the Eucharist rather than dismantle the celibate male-only priesthood is sad
beyond words. The greatest Catholic theologian of the twentieth century, Karl Rahner gave that gentle Pope Paul Vl
advice which the Church needs to hear. "If in practice you cannot obtain a
sufficient number of priests in a given cultural setting without relinquishing
celibacy, then the church must suspend the law of celibacy."
Not a
few in and out of the Church link power and celibacy. Theologically the
Catholic Church does not belong to the Pope or the bishops or for that matter,
the laity. It belongs to Christ and this ultimately must demand a better way
for non-celibate lay people to participate at every level of the church. The clericalized power of control presently lived out in the
Church is not compatible with the vision of Jesus. The untenable continuation
of priestly power accessible to celibates who then attempt to control the
sexual lives of all the faithful can no longer be the modus vivendi of a healthy church. Lay people who comprise 99
percent of the Church are now much too educated, enlightened and democratic to
allow this to continue. Endowed every bit as much with the gifts of the Holy
Spirit, lay people are demanding the end of an autocratic structure and the end
of the feudal clerical stranglehold on decision making. This is a natural evolution
which can result in healthier modes of priesthood.
It has
often been said that power is the aphrodisiac of the celibate. We have read
enough of past history and seen enough of the present to see the harm done by
celibacy: From the pathetic careerism of the upwardly mobile who do not
understand that the gospel is about downward mobility, to the repressed
sexuality of so many good gay men, to the alcoholism of the lonely celibate,
and the frigid asceticism of the poor pastor whose battle with celibacy has
cost him his whole affective life. We have tragically observed the wrecked
lives of the innocent destroyed, those who became the victims of too many who
acted out the twisted power relations with children, adolescents, and women.
Lamentably we have watched the sorry codependency of the many who mistook
holiness for a safe place in the comfortable arms of a bureaucracy.
Finally,
one of the obvious benefits to a relaxation of the celibacy demand in the
Church would be a much more wholesome attitude toward sex. The preoccupation of
this holy and mysterious life force by a celibate priesthood has badly skewed
Catholic morality. The end of celibacy and the deeper appreciation which only
comes with experience will grace the Catholic Church with much more authentic
wisdom in this realm.
Ted Schmidt is Editor of Catholic New Times.